Kristi Finney-Dunn said: April 12, 2012 11:23 am PST
My 28 year old son Dustin was killed by a drunk driver on August 12, 2011. Until then I didn't know any of the statistics, didn't know of all the pain and suffering endured by the friends and family of these victims. You hear about them on the news sometimes, and you're horrified for a couple of minutes, but then you forget about it, because it really doesn't mean anything in your life... until it does. And then it doesn't go away. It stays and grows bigger and you get to where you don't trust anyone on the road and you also want to shout at people, hey, wake up! It can TOO happen to you. The death of someone you love or maybe yourself, the family having to deal with "the arrangements", their feelings (which are waaaayyyy beyond anything anyone can imagine they might be), the finances, the empty chair, the lost potential, the legal case (which sometimes results in nothing but more anger and victimization for the family), etc., etc.
I am so sorry about the loss of Rachel and all the other innocent victims of people who choose to get behind the wheel and drive drunk. Or distracted by phones, gps, whatever (the "new drunk drivers"). Or who choose to speed, tail-gate, run lights and stop signs, improperly change lanes, etc. These so-called "accidents" aren't accidental. They're preventable. Please, prevent yours.